Life in a box… dating… why am I here??

Daily thoughts by Joe:

I’ve had recently been on some dating sites, and even went on a couple dates over the past year.

There are a couple things I wanted to point out about all of it.

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1. Most of, if not all of what I see or get the vibe of on dating sites is a bunch of men running around seeking validation or almost begging women to like or choose them. Fuck that! I’m better than that.

I am a high value man, who would rather die alone, that forget my worth.

Almost all I see from women is them setting the terms and rules.

“No this, no that, must be this, must be that. this tall, this rich…” blah blah

It really turns me off.

Do men really feel like they don’t have shit to offer? Do men not have balls?

And do women really feel like they are the ONLY prize or one who’s worth pursuing?

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2. While on a date do you ever have those moments where you hear your stories out loud and you talk about your life, then you end up saying back to yourself... “well shit! That’s terrible?”

Like, you are probably wondering to yourself what the other person is really thinking?

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3. Why are men expected to do all the work? To pursue the woman? Why is it such an expectation that men have to carry the load but also not want anything in return?

Sure... I’ll make the plans, pay, be e pecked to text and call, carry the conversation and carry the majority of the overall load, make the moves, and take the lead... just so I can fight to be “picked”

I don’t get it...

I just keep asking myself “what would I gain from dating?”

Please... please... someone give me a reason???

- ❤️ Dr. Joe