Life in a box... keep on dancing!
- Joe Siar
- Apr 1, 2021
- 2 min read
1. You can’t make everyone happy.
You have to stop thinking you can. I’m sure your intentions are good, but it will never happen. Some people don’t want to be happy. Some people want to argue. Some people want to find fault, and there’s nothing you can do about it. Act and speak out of love, because your response is up to you, but their response is up to them.
2. Stop caring what people think.
That weight will lift off your shoulders the second you commit to being just fine if everyone doesn’t like you.
3. It normal to refuse to be what someone else’s version of you is.
You are not required to fit inside someone else’s box, and you aren’t doomed to be alone just because you are yourself. You can make your own rules. You are everything you need. Everything and everyone else is just an added bonus!
4. You are loved!
You are worthy, we all are! You are perfect exactly as you are, exactly where you are, with exactly what you have. You don’t have to earn love from anyone. You don’t need anything nor do you need to change anything to be loved!
5. It’s okay to change your mind.
You are allowed to see things from a new perspective. You’re allowed to grow. Some people won’t like it, but you have to keep learning, pushing, healing, and becoming the the best version of yourself.
6. You don’t have to try so hard.
You don’t owe this world a damn thing! Breathe. Everything will be ok. The same love, patience, and grace you give to others, make sure you are giving that to yourself as well.
7. There’s nothing wrong with you!
You’re a badass! Now tell yourself that in the mirror.
8. Insecurity leads to fear, which leads to bad decisions.
Insecurity has nothing good to offer, and whatever voice inside your head it’s whispering... don’t believe that shit!
9. Don’t stop believing!
You’ll find your tribe, your person, & yourself as long as you stay true to your values and your core.
10. A caring heart is a beautiful thing.
Never stop loving yourself, others, or showing up for those who need you. Stay strong but soft, kind but have boundaries, speak your truth, and don’t stop dancing.
❤️ - Dr. Joe
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